春秋时期,有个叫伯夷的人,为人正直,坚持自己的原则。一次,他去见周武王,周武王向他讲述自己推翻暴君商纣王,建立周朝的经过。伯夷却说:“你这是篡夺,是违背天道的行为,我绝不相信!”周武王听了,并没有生气,而是耐心地向伯夷解释自己的道理。伯夷仍坚持己见,说:“我不会相信你的鬼话。”周武王叹了口气,说:“唉,看来你是不相信我的话了,真是‘谓予不信’啊!”这个故事说明,即使是正确的观点,如果表达方式不当,也可能让人难以接受。
Chunqiu shiqi, you ge jiao Boyi de ren, wei ren zhengzhi, jianchi zijide yuanze. Yici, ta qu jian Zhou Wu Wang, Zhou Wu Wang xiang ta jiangshu ziji tuifan baojuns Shang Zhou Wang, jianli Zhou chao de jingguo. Boyi que shuo: 'Ni zhe shi zhuan duo, shi weibai tiandao de xingwei, wo jue bu xiangxin!' Zhou Wu Wang ting le, bing meiyou shengqi, er shi naixin di xiang Boyi jieshi zijide daoli. Boyi reng jianchi zijian, shuo: 'Wo bu hui xiangxin ni de gui hua.' Zhou Wu Wang taile yi kouqi, shuo: 'Ai, kanlai ni shi bu xiangxin wo de hua le, zhen shi wei yu bu xin a!' Zhege gushi shuoming, jishi shi zhengque de guandianyou ruoguobiaodafangshibudang, ye keneng rang ren nanyi jieshou.