明媒正礼 míng méi zhèng lǐ formal marriage

Explanation

指双方家长正式同意,按照传统礼仪举行的婚姻。

Refers to a marriage where both families formally agree and the marriage is conducted according to traditional customs.

Origin Story

话说唐朝时期,有一个书生名叫李明,他与一位美丽善良的女子相恋。女子的父亲是一位颇有声望的官员,他十分重视女儿的婚姻大事,坚持要为女儿选择一个门当户对的夫婿。李明家境贫寒,但才华横溢,他深爱着女子,也希望能够娶她为妻。为了赢得女子的芳心和赢得岳父的认可,李明发愤图强,刻苦学习,最终通过科举考试,考取功名。在李明金榜题名之后,他与女子终于在父母的见证下,举行了盛大的婚礼,完成了这门明媒正礼的婚姻。从此以后,两人相敬如宾,生活美满幸福。

huà shuō táng cháo shí qī, yǒu yīgè shū shēng míng jiào lǐ míng, tā yǔ yī wèi měilì shànliáng de nǚzǐ xiāng liàn. nǚ zǐ de fù qīn shì yī wèi pō yǒu shēngwàng de guān yuán, tā shí fēn zhòngshì nǚ'ér de hūnyīn dà shì, jiānchí yào wèi nǚ'ér xuǎnzé yīgè mén dāng hù duì de fū xù. lǐ míng jiā jìng pín hán, dàn cái huá héng yì, tā shēn ài zhe nǚ zǐ, yě xīwàng nénggòu qǔ tā wèi qī. wèile yíngdé nǚ zǐ de fāng xīn hé yíngdé yuè fù de rènkě, lǐ míng fā fèn tú qiáng, kèkǔ xuéxí, zhōng yú tōngguò kējǔ kǎoshì, kǎo qǔ gōng míng. zài lǐ míng jīn bǎng tí míng zhī hòu, tā yǔ nǚ zǐ zhōng yú zài fùmǔ de jiàn zhèng xià, jǔxíng le shèngdà de hūnlǐ, wánchéng le zhè mén míng méi zhèng lǐ de hūnyīn. cóng cǐ yǐ hòu, liǎng rén xiāng jìng rú bīn, shēnghuó měimǎn xìngfú.

In the Tang Dynasty, there was a scholar named Li Ming who fell in love with a beautiful and kind woman. The woman's father was a well-respected official who placed great importance on his daughter's marriage, insisting on finding her a suitable husband. Li Ming's family was poor, but he was talented and deeply loved the woman, and hoped to marry her. To win the woman's heart and the approval of her father, Li Ming worked hard and studied diligently, finally passing the imperial examination and gaining an official position. After his success, he and the woman finally held a grand wedding ceremony under the witness of their parents, completing a formal and proper marriage. From then on, they lived a happy life together.

Usage

用于形容婚姻的正式性

yòng yú xíngróng hūnyīn de zhèngshì xìng

Used to describe the formality of a marriage

Examples

  • 他与妻子是明媒正礼结婚的。

    tā yǔ qīzi shì míng méi zhèng lǐ jiéhūn de

    He married his wife in a formal wedding ceremony.

  • 这桩婚事是明媒正礼,合情合理。

    zhè zhuāng hūnshì shì míng méi zhèng lǐ, hé qíng hélǐ

    This marriage was conducted properly and legally.