道歉方式 Ways of Apologizing dàoqiàn fāngshì

Dialogues

Dialogues 1

中文

丽丽：对不起，我不是故意弄坏你的笔的。
小明：没关系，东西坏了可以再买。下次小心点就好了。
丽丽：真的非常抱歉，要不我赔你一支新的？
小明：不用了，真的没事。
丽丽：那好吧，谢谢你！

拼音

Lì lì: Duìbuqǐ, wǒ bùshì gùyì nòng huài nǐ de bǐ de.
Xiǎo míng: Méiguānxi, dōngxi huài le kěyǐ zài mǎi. Xià cì xiǎoxīn diǎn jiù hǎo le.
Lì lì: Zhēn de fēicháng bàoqiàn, yàobù wǒ péi nǐ yī zhī xīn de?
Xiǎo míng: Búyòng le, zhēn de méishì.
Lì lì: Nà hǎo ba, xièxie nǐ!

English

Lily: I'm sorry, I didn't mean to break your pen.
Xiaoming: It's okay, things break, you can buy a new one. Just be more careful next time.
Lily: I'm really very sorry, should I buy you a new one?
Xiaoming: No, it's really okay.
Lily: Okay, thank you!

Common Phrases

对不起

duìbuqǐ

Sorry

没关系

méiguānxi

It's okay

非常抱歉

fēicháng bàoqiàn

I'm very sorry

Cultural Background

中文

中国文化强调含蓄和委婉，道歉时通常不会过于直白或夸张。

根据关系亲疏程度，道歉方式有所不同。

长辈对晚辈道歉可以比较直接，而晚辈对长辈则需要更加谨慎和委婉。

拼音

Zhōngguó wénhuà qiángdiào hánxù hé wěi wǎn, bàoqiàn shí tōngcháng bù huì guòyú zhíbái huò kuāzhāng。

Gēnjù guānxi qīnshū chéngdù, bàoqiàn fāngshì yǒusuǒ bùtóng。

Zhǎngbèi duì wǎnbèi bàoqiàn kěyǐ bǐjiào zhíjiē, ér wǎnbèi duì zhǎngbèi zé xūyào gèngjiā jǐn shèn hé wěi wǎn。

English

In English-speaking cultures, direct and sincere apologies are common.

It's often appropriate to take responsibility for your actions.

Over-apologizing can be perceived as insincere.

Advanced Expressions

中文

我为我的行为造成的冒犯深感抱歉，并真诚地希望得到你的谅解。

这件事是我的错，我愿意承担全部责任。

拼音

Wǒ wèi wǒ de xíngwéi zàochéng de màofàn shēngǎn bàoqiàn, bìng zhēnchéng de xīwàng dédào nǐ de liǎngjiě。

Zhè jiàn shì qíng shì wǒ de cuò, wǒ yuànyì chéngdān quánbù zérèn。

English

I deeply regret the offense caused by my actions and sincerely hope for your understanding.

It was my fault, and I am willing to take full responsibility.

Cultural Taboos

中文

避免在公众场合大声争吵或指责，尽量保持冷静和克制。

拼音

Bìmiǎn zài gōngzhòng chǎnghé dàshēng zhēng chǎo huò zhǐzé, jǐnliàng bǎochí lěngjìng hé kèzhì。

English

Avoid loud arguments or accusations in public, try to remain calm and restrained.

Key Points

中文

道歉时要真诚，态度要谦逊。根据对方身份和场合选择合适的语言表达。

拼音

Dàoqiàn shí yào zhēnchéng, tàidu yào qiānxùn. Gēnjù duìfāng shēnfèn hé chǎnghé xuǎnzé héshì de yǔyán biǎodá。

English

When apologizing, be sincere and humble. Choose appropriate language based on the other person's status and the occasion.

Practice Tips

中文

模拟不同场景下的道歉对话，例如：与朋友、长辈、老师、同事道歉。

尝试用不同的语气和表达方式进行道歉，体会其中细微的差别。

请他人对你的道歉进行评价，找出改进之处。

拼音

Mónǐ bùtóng chǎngjǐng xià de dàoqiàn duìhuà, lìrú: yǔ péngyou, zhǎngbèi, lǎoshī, tóngshì dàoqiàn。

Chángshì yòng bùtóng de yǔqì hé biǎodá fāngshì jìnxíng dàoqiàn, tǐhuì qízhōng xìwēi de chābié。

Qǐng tārén duì nǐ de dàoqiàn jìnxíng píngjià, zhǎochū gǎijìn zhī chù。

English

Practice apology dialogues in different scenarios, such as: apologizing to friends, elders, teachers, colleagues.

Try using different tones and expressions to apologize, understanding the subtle differences.

Have others evaluate your apologies to find areas for improvement.