表达代际关系 Expressing Generational Relationships Biǎodá dài jì guānxi

Dialogues

Dialogues 1

中文

外婆:小明,你今年几岁啦?
小明:外婆,我今年七岁啦!
外婆:哇,都七岁啦,时间过得好快呀!你爸爸小时候也和你差不多大呢。
小明:爸爸小时候?他几岁的时候像我一样呢?
外婆:嗯…,大概是你现在这个年纪的时候吧,我们那时候没那么多玩具,都是自己动手做。
小明:哇,那真有意思!
外婆:是啊,那时候虽然没现在这么方便,但是我们一起玩得可开心啦!

拼音

Wàipó: Xiǎomíng, nǐ jīnnián jǐ suì la?
Xiǎomíng: Wàipó, wǒ jīnnián qī suì la!
Wàipó: Wā, dōu qī suì la, shíjiān guò de hǎo kuài ya! Nǐ bàba xiǎoshíhòu yě hé nǐ chàbuduō dà ne.
Xiǎomíng: Bàba xiǎoshíhòu? Tā jǐ suì de shíhòu xiàng wǒ yīyàng ne?
Wàipó: Ńn…, dàgài shì nǐ xiànzài zhège niánjì de shíhòu ba, wǒmen nàshíhòu méi nàme duō wánjù, dōu shì zìjǐ dòngshǒu zuò.
Xiǎomíng: Wā, nà zhēn yǒuyìsi!
Wàipó: Shì a, nàshíhòu suīrán méi xiànzài zhème fāngbiàn, dànshì wǒmen yīqǐ wán de kě kāixīn la!

English

Grandma: Xiaoming, how old are you this year?
Xiaoming: Grandma, I'm seven years old this year!
Grandma: Wow, seven years old already! Time flies so fast! Your father was about the same age when he was a child.
Xiaoming: My father as a child? How old was he when he was like me?
Grandma: Um...probably around your age now. We didn't have as many toys back then; we made our own.
Xiaoming: Wow, that sounds interesting!
Grandma: Yes, although it wasn't as convenient as it is now, we had a lot of fun together!

Common Phrases

我今年几岁了?

Wǒ jīnnián jǐ suì le?

How old am I?

我小时候...

Wǒ xiǎoshíhòu...

When I was a child...

时间过得真快

Shíjiān guò de zhēn kuài

Time flies so fast

Cultural Background

中文

在中国,和长辈谈论年龄通常比较谨慎,一般会委婉地表达。

在非正式场合下,可以较为随意地谈论年龄。

注意称呼,要根据长辈的年龄和身份选择合适的称呼。

拼音

Zài zhōngguó, hé zhǎngbèi tánlùn niánlíng tōngcháng bǐjiào jǐnzhèn, yībān huì wěi wǎn de biǎodá.

Zài fēi zhèngshì chǎnghé xià, kěyǐ jiào wéisuì de tánlùn niánlíng.

Zhùyì chēnghu, yào gēnjù zhǎngbèi de niánlíng hé shēnfèn xuǎnzé héshì de chēnghu。

English

In China, when discussing age with elders, it's usually more prudent to express oneself tactfully.

In informal settings, it's okay to discuss age more freely.

Pay attention to honorifics. Choose the appropriate form of address based on the elder's age and status.

Avoid direct questions about age, especially with older generations, as it can be considered impolite.

Talking about shared experiences across generations is a better alternative to directly ask age questions.

Advanced Expressions

中文

我们家祖孙三代同堂,其乐融融。

父母辈的经历对我们影响深远。

跨越世代的理解和沟通非常重要。

拼音

Wǒmen jiā zǔsūn sān dài tóngtáng, qí lè róngróng。

Fùmǔ bèi de jīnglì duì wǒmen yǐngxiǎng shēnyuǎn。

Kuàyuè shìdài de lǐjiě hé gōutōng fēicháng zhòngyào。

English

Our family has three generations living together harmoniously.

The experiences of our parents' generation have a profound impact on us.

Intergenerational understanding and communication are extremely important.

Cultural Taboos

中文

避免直接询问长辈的年龄,尤其是年纪较大的长辈,这被认为是不礼貌的。

拼音

Bìmiǎn zhíjiē xúnwèn zhǎngbèi de niánlíng, yóuqí shì niánjì jiào dà de zhǎngbèi, zhè bèi rènwéi shì bù lǐmào de。

English

Avoid directly asking elders about their age, especially older elders, as this is considered impolite.

Key Points

中文

在与长辈交流时,要尊重他们的经验和智慧,避免使用轻浮的语气。

拼音

Zài yǔ zhǎngbèi jiāoliú shí, yào zūnzhòng tāmen de jīngyàn hé zhìhuì, bìmiǎn shǐyòng qīngfú de yǔqì。

English

When interacting with elders, respect their experience and wisdom and avoid using a frivolous tone.

Practice Tips

中文

多听长辈讲述他们的故事和经历。

尝试从他们的角度思考问题。

练习使用合适的称呼和敬语。

在表达观点时,注意语气和措辞。

拼音

Duō tīng zhǎngbèi jiǎngshù tāmen de gùshì hé jīnglì。

Chángshì cóng tāmen de jiǎodù sīkǎo wèntí。

Liànxí shǐyòng héshì de chēnghu hé jìngyǔ。

Zài biǎodá guāndiǎn shí, zhùyì yǔqì hé cuòcí。

English

Listen attentively to stories and experiences from elders.

Try to think about issues from their perspective.

Practice using appropriate honorifics and polite language.

Pay attention to tone and wording when expressing opinions.